Saturday, April 4, 2009

Clarification

So, as you can imagine, I have gotten more comments and emails about my comment concerning the government making a law that each family should adopt. Yes, I am dramatic, especially when I am talking about an issue I am passionate about and while I am feeling emotional about that subject. I really should learn to wait until the emotions calm down before writing (or saying) things too dramatically. Well, lesson learned. Of course I think forcing all families to do one certain thing is ridiculous. Adoption (and family planning in general) is a very personal thing, and there is no way any government could make one choice that would be good for each individual family.
I guess I just wanted to make the point that I think it is a much more serious issue than most people realize. As well, I really wish that the government (U.S. and others) wouldn't make it so difficult to place these children in loving homes. Again, I also wanted to make the point that I have no personal problem with Madonna wanting to adopt. Many people have judged her and made claims they cannot possibly back up. My latest posts were not about being mad at Madonna for wanting to adopt from Malawi (or at all for that matter). I am just really frustrated about the way she has gone about it, making it much more difficult for others to adopt here in Malawi, when she has the opportunity to bring about real change.

2 comments:

Sarah Partain said...

Thanks for clarifying, my dramatic sister! Love you lots!

Katy Robertson said...

Although I do not think that there should be a law requiring every family to adopt, I believe that there should be laws making it easier for families who are willing to adopt to do so.

America has started to do this by giving tax credits, etc. Adoption is expensive. However, international countries need to start making adjustments. There are many couples who would love to adopt, but when coutries like Malawi make it so difficult, the only person who suffers is the children. International Adoption takes a couple years, and even in America, most non-infant children are in the foster care system for an average of 3 years. Far too long.

Making a law requiring adoption may be wrong, but making laws helping willing couples or individuals adopt would be great!

Miss y'all- give sweet baby Eli a kiss for me!