Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Monday, March 2, 2009

Visiting friends part 2

We visited Rev. Maxjoy and his congregation again this Sunday, only this time we brought Bech and Marley with us. We felt confident as we set out to find the church early Sunday morning, but after driving for a while, we began to get worried. I had encourage Dan not to turn around, but to just keep driving. We did go down a wrong road for a few minutes, but realized it probably lead to nothing when it became a field of grass taller than the car!


One of the reasons we felt lost was because the corn is so tall. Last time we visited, they had just planted, so you could see across the fields and figure out where you were. This time, all we could see was corn growing right up against the roads.


Dan and Eli give you an idea of how tall the corn has grown.



The road was a lot worse than last time because of the rains and we had to go slow. Elijah was great in the car. He sleeps well ons bumpy roads. Eventually, we found the church and were only 15 minutes late. Pretty good! Here are some pictures from our travels as well as Maxjoy's town and church, Madalitso CCAP.

When we walked in, we were immediately brought to the front to sit in special chairs right below the pulpit. When you visit a Malawian church, you are definitely going to be treated well. I will say I was surprised that they had us women sit in the front. I got a little nervous when I realized that I would have to feed Eli soon, but again, remembered I was in Africa! It was no problem for me to just nurse in front of an entire congregation during the sermon. I love that.

Here is Marley sitting by herself in the front (I was taking pictures). You can also see Bech on the other side of the puplit. Dan's seat is empty, as he was sitting near the door playing with Elijah. Eli did well, but got a little restless at the end. I guess it's understandable for a 9 month old to get restless after 3 hours of church. The lady with the white head wrap did a great job entertaining him for a few hours, though. She let Eli eat almost an entire piece of paper which is something I never let him do. HA!

There were more than 6 choirs that sang during the service. This is a video snip of one of the choirs. They were all beautiful. I really wish Presbyterians would move a little more or clap during worship sometimes. Africans really put us to shame. They all sing out without worrying about how they sound. It's tempting to believe that all African can sing well, but we have learned that it is not true. Still, this choir will blow you away. (this was the offering song, which is why you will see people walking through the isles)


After the service, we had lunch with Maxjoy and his wife Joyce. Actually, we learned his name isn't Maxjoy, but it is Maxford. Maxjoy is a combination of Maxford and Joyce, reiterating the fact that he and his wife are one, and only close friends call him by that name. We had a great time laughing about the misunderstanding and decided to continue calling him Maxjoy.



Bech, Dan and Eli pose with Maxjoy and the elders of the church. A few of them are chiefs of neighboring villages. It is always encouraging to meet christian chiefs and to think of the impact they are having on the people of their villages.
Elijah had his first taste of nzima (corn mush type stuff) and relish (okra and tomatoes). He ate so much of it that I finally had to cut him off. He really is becoming a little Malawian. After lunch, we accompanied Maxjoy to his garden and he gave us a bunch of potatoes. Bech is pictured below with Maxjoy and the potatoes. This is just one example of the love and hospitality that Malawians have for their visitors.



I was reminded of how beautiful Malawi is. Lilongwe can seem so dismal, but as soon as you are a few miles out of town, the beauty of Africa hits you like a ton of bricks. Of course fellowship with an amazing church body helps, too.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Visiting friends part 1

Macleod is our friend who works in the resource room at ABCCA. Elijah and I love to visit him before my class. In southern culture, children call their elders Maam and Sir. Well, in Malawian culture, children call their elders uncle and auntie. Macloed is Eli's uncle, as well as our brother. He is a really fun guy and we've enjoyed getting to know him. We went to see Macloed and his wife on Saturday who has just had a baby girl, their first child. We imediately switched babies when we got there. It was fun to hold a newborn again and made it hard to believe that Elijah was that little just 9 momths ago!


Diana (the baby) must have known we were coming, because she put on her Seattle Mariners shorts.

Elijah gets to know Diana

Eli was a good boy during our visit but got a little restless near the end. We went outside to play with the neighborhood kids and he loved it. They showed me a new trick, a way to get Elijah to stand on his own without falling. At first, I was worried and almost went over to save him, but then found that it actually worked. They stood him up against the wall and then left him there to stand on his own! We've been doing this at home, and encouraging him to take a step towards us. He still seems a little scared, but he also gets really excited about standing by himself and "taking a step" forward (leaning towards us and then us catching him). It is funny to me how interested he is in walking when he hasn't even mastered crawling yet.



Eli stands alone

The neighborhood kids wave goodbye

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Christmas time is here...

Here are some pictures of us decorating the tree. Elijah loved the ornaments, but loves the tree even more. He often talks to it.

Kind of Charlie Brownish, but still very nice to have a Christmas tree!

Our Nativity Scene and stockings (we need one for Elijah!!!!)
We had Christina and her family over for dinner last night. We made pizza and cake!!! She specifically requested an American dinner and then even more specifically asked for pizza. I have only made pizza dough from scratch once, so I was a little nervous about making FOUR, but they turned out great and were very delicious. I also made cake frosting from scratch which so was easy!!! I'm not sure I'll ever buy frosting again!
While waiting for dinner to cook, we opened presents. Christina brought over presents for Elijah, two cute little outfits. And she got me a nice big chitenje to have a dress made out of. I gave the children their stockings which were filled with candy, toys and coloring books with crayons.


Elijah loved the attention. We had a great time watching the kids play with Elijah. He has gotten more playful and really enjoys being with other kids. Here is Christina with her husband Good. We just love this family and are thankful we were able to spend time with them over the break!

Sunday, September 14, 2008

It takes a village...

Pastor Kelly with Elijah


Jenn Birch and Elijah


Clara Stoms with Elijah.


Barbara Henry with Elijah.


Gallagher and Elijah


Blythe and Elijah

We've all heard "it takes a village to raise a child". I really believe that it does! I don't think that the saying is implying that a mother and a father cannot handle the responsibility on their own. I do think that it is referring to the fact that children grow from being in an environment where tons of people are caring for them and loving them. These past few weeks have been a picture of this. With the Green lake team here from Seattle, Elijah has loved being held by so many people. When we went to the village, I loved seeing him get passed around to all of our friends there. Malawians especially just love to talk to Eli. If he is not with me, people will ask "Where is my nephew/brother/son/grandson???" It's as if he is their family, and they all treat him as such. There is just something very special about people truly loving on your kid.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Three days in one!

The day began with a huge shopping trip. We hit up two stores and the market for food for the team that went to stay in a village for the week. It was fun showing people around town, but it is always a little stressful trying to get all that you need in a small amount of time. We did it though.

Then, we packed up the cars and headed out for Matapila. Almost the whole group went, most of them to stay but some of them just went for the ride. I think it was good for people to see where the Ministry of Hope team would be staying for the whole week...they got a picture of what their week would be like. The roads were great compared to how they were last December during the rainy season! Elijah did great and slept the entire way. The moment we pulled up, he woke up and was ready to eat. SO, I sat in the car and fed Eli while children watched and played with his feet. They were so enthralled with Elijah and kept calling for the 'white baby' in Chechewa. I'm not sure how many white babies they have seen.


Rebecca Morton with Elijah...orange was the color of the day I guess.

It was wonderful to see Gift and his family again. He is the director of the Katonda feeding center which is only a few miles from the Matapila feeding center. His brother Fletcher is the ABC graduate who started Ministry of Hope. His children have grown since December! (sorry no pictures of them this time....I was busy keeping Elijah safe as all the kids were begging to hold him!).

It was also fun to see Joseph again. He is the new director of the Matapila center. He was sad that Dan wasn't with me, and thought for a while that he might have been sick. I had to keep explaining to him that he was just really busy with school work.
We only stayed in the village long enough for Elijah to get ready for another nap. Then we headed home. We didn't want to be driving in the dark. We dropped the men off at the Stom's house for dinner, and then the ladies went out! It was so wonderful. We had great Italian food and then gellato afterward at this new little place in town. It was only 250 Kwacha for two scoops of ice cream AND it was actually really really good!

Left to Right: Laura Stoms, ME, Erin Kelly, Barbara Henry, Jenn Birch, Libby Scrafano (sp?)



Today was strange because I experienced so many different types of African scenarios. The shopping, the village and driving dirt roads and then a wonderful relaxing dinner. It truly felt like 3 separate days all packed into one.

Here are some random photos. I love that our friends have just been hanging out in our little house here in Africa.

Taking Elijah for an evening walk....we LOVE our stroller Sarah!


Daddy and Eli.Next on the agenda: give daddy a haircut!